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I know what you are thinking,
'Its all about the sex'. That really isn't true. I mean yes, the sex
is great with someone when there is no strings attached to it.
Nothing is more satisfying than being able to please yourself and your
partner without having to worry about her bitching about the trash
that needs taken out afterwards.
Everyone needs a companion. We all need to feel attractive and feel
that we are worth something to someone. I like to think of this as a
unleaded relationship.
You are there when there is a need,
if the other person needs someone to talk to, and to full fill both of
your sexual needs. It is like being in a relationship without all the
nagging and other responsibilities that you have. There is no need to
worry about her bills or putting food on her table, or her having to
worry about doing your laundry or taking care of the house.
There are potential dangers of relationships like this though.
Sometimes people may begin to mistake sex for love.
When it comes to oral sex she could suck a golf ball through a straw.
After awhile you begin to feel comfortable with her and you come to
expect the sex. Then after awhile you fall in love with how her ass
looks like a heart when she bends over, and it is all down hill from
there. This is true with women as well. They begin to feel
comfortable in bed with a partner and then they mistake lust for
love. They enjoy the pleasure that you are able to give them, and in
their mind they think it is love. While the only thing you are
thinking about after you have sex is how weird the sexual position
was, they are thinking about a house and kids.
Often times these types of relationships
turn into long term relationships. The sex is good, you don't want to
ruin a good thing right? Why would you turn a hot piece of ass down
for a lonely time with you and your bottle of hand lotion on a
Saturday night? These types of relationships are never good ones to
per sue long term. They tend to end abruptly and cause a lot of
pain. Every man knows what I am talking about.
One time I was involved with this hot piece of ass.
The sex was great
and he had a good time together. It was the best thing that ever
happened to me. She fell in love with me. It was no longer just sex
for her, but I was now her boyfriend. That was news to me! After I
got sick of her, I dumped her. All I wanted was some sex and a
friend, she wanted a new husband to take care of her while she sat on
her ass all day doing nothing. There is too much tuna in the sea for
that!
After it was all over
she became a wreck and started stalking me. She told me how she loved
me and how I really loved her but I was in denial. I wasn't in
denial, I loved what she had between her legs. There was nothing more
to it than that. She spent years chasing me and making my life a
living hell. It seemed that every other day she said she wanted to
kill herself because she couldn't live without me. She ruined my
dating life. What woman wants to be with a man who has a crazy ex who
calls him all day long and shows up at the house crying?
A temporary lover is a great
thing if both of you understand it is exactly that. Both of you can
get your needs met and enjoy each others' company. I would be
cautious with this sort of thing though. Because women tend to use
sex as something to reel you in. They think if they put out, that you
will fall in love with them and live happily ever after. In truth
what happens is, they fall in love and hurt themselves. Then they
make your life hell and try to ruin everything for you. If you are too
busy for a real relationship, then this is the way to go. If you
don't have nerves of steel, then you might want to consider buying a
pocket pussy from your local sex shop. |
